We would like to share some simple and practical steps on how we usually dissolve any misunderstandings or simple problems between us (husband and wife) that may appear in our life.

Before we start, let us first understand the basic prerequisites before attempting to apply the tips.

  • Both husband and wife need to be ready to Love
  • Both husband and wife need to be open for forgiving each other
  • Both husband and wife need to feel the need to improve
  • Both husband and wife need to accept help from God

Once the above prerequisites are met then the next steps are very very easy. We usually follow these steps:

  • Whenever we feel our ego is popping up and some times disturbing our sweet love, first we recognize that this is our own ego playing with us. So, recognize that there exists a problem that our ego is causing which needs to be dissolved ASAP.
  • Me (always the husband first) bow to the feet of my wife bending my head and kneeling down. This needs to be done with a deep sense of humility and with an open heart asking for forgiveness. You can easily feel, your ego dropping down.
  • As soon as I do this, my wife puts her hand on my back touching the spinal cord. And then she also bows to me with the same sense of deep humility and with an open heart asking for forgiveness.
  • Both of us then hug deeply
  • Then we look at each other deeply eyes-to-eyes and heart-to-heart and say/feel ,,I LOVE YOU'' to each other
  • Do God yoga or meditation with ,,OM'' or kriyayoga as you may wish
  • Then there is only one feeling LOVE, LOVE, LOVE..........the love flow between us after this is extremely good.
  • Then share the love with some fruits, cakes, simple dresses to the ones in needy in your area

We also deeply feel that if I give LOVE to my wife, I receive LOVE from her Also she proves her LOVE first and she receives LOVE from me. Always, give first and then receive. This has made our life very loving.

So, apply the above steps in case of problems and enjoy Love and happiness !!

One last word: It is our experience that deep and regular kriyayoga practice would reduce the occurance of any kind of problems making the above steps only necessary in rare cases.